No I am not sad, but I wanted to talk about Seasonal affective Disorder. I recently found out about SAD because I was feeling it, though I did not know at the time. Now it all makes sense. Here is some useful information about SAD.

What causes SAD?
The exact causes of SAD are still unclear. However, there are several theories about what causes it and why some people are more vulnerable to it than others.

The effects of light
When light hits the back of the eye (the retina), messages are passed to the part of the brain (the hypothalamus) that rules sleep, appetite, sex drive, temperature, mood, and activity. If there’s not enough light, these functions are likely to slow down and gradually stop. Some people seem to need a lot more light than others for their body to function normally, and are therefore more likely to develop SAD symptoms if there are low levels of light.

Low serotonin levels
There are several brain chemicals involved in SAD, but the main one is serotonin. People experiencing depression have been found to have lower levels of serotonin, particularly in winter. It is thought that the brain’s system for releasing and absorbing serotonin to regulate moods might not work properly in people with SAD.

High melatonin levels
When it’s dark, the pineal gland in the brain produces the hormone melatonin which makes us sleep. When it becomes light again, it stops producing melatonin and we wake up. It has been found that people with SAD produce much higher melatonin levels in winter than other people. This is also what happens to animals when they hibernate.

However, the relationship between melatonin levels and SAD is still unclear. We know that if someone with high melatonin levels is exposed to bright light, their melatonin levels drop to normal. However, trials have shown that even after their melatonin levels have returned to normal, most people continue to experience the depressive symptoms of SAD. This suggests that melatonin is unlikely to be the only cause of SAD.

Disrupted body clock
Your brain sets your body clock (circadian rhythm) by the hours of daylight. One theory is that if you experience SAD, the part of the brain that does this doesn’t work properly and so your body clock slows down, leading to tiredness and depression. However, as bright light (in the morning or from light treatment) appears to reduce symptoms of SAD, a problem with this part of the brain is unlikely to be the only cause of SAD. Also, some experts have argued that it is natural for the body clock to try to slow down in the winter months..

Other possible triggers
Like other forms of depression, SAD has also been reported to have been triggered by an unwelcome or traumatic life event, such a major loss or bereavement, an assault, or by serious illness. It may also be triggered by physical illness, a change to diet or medication, or the use (or withdrawal from) street drugs and alcohol (see Depression for more information). People who have lived near the equator for part of their lives and then moved to the UK seem to be particularly vulnerable to developing SAD.

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Hello Cold November

Winter is upon us, and we must remember to keep ourselves in a positive mood. Even though it is not easy when daylight seems to disappear so quickly. Which is why it is important to stay active, read an enjoyable book, visit friends join a yoga class, start meditation go for a walk. 

November is a great time to take a good look in the mirror and to ask yourself, ”Am I happy, Do I like what I see, Do I need to change anything about myself”?

If you answered yes to any of these questions then why not think about going for a different look, different style or maybe change the colours that you wear every day. You would be surprised at just how making that one minor change will make you feel. 

I often ask my clients silly little questions, sometimes people tend to shy away from answering them, but by letting go and being truthful to yourself you will be surprised at just how much of a release it can be and all you need to do is trust yourself. Think of the things that make you happy and go with it. 

Go on, I know you can do it.

Hello Autumn

It is still lovely weather here in Brighton and it is still a beautiful place to be in. The vibe is always fantastic, and people are so much happier and friendlier than London folk.

Today I have been busy with a couple of new clients. I had two lovely women wanting to get some advice on their wardrobe. One of the women tells me that she had just came out to her friends and family and she feels like a huge weight has been lifted off her shoulders. Today she wanted to cut her exceptionally long hair short and wanted some advice on makeup. I have to say what a major improvement. She looked a million dollars, and she was smiling which made me incredibly happy.

I have a lot of gay women who come to see me for advice as well as gay men, it is always a pleasure meeting people from all walks of life.

I love my job